Have you ever thought where would your life would be if you dated that first person you were with and married them. Or why you didn't end up with that other person you thought you would date. You are wondering why you didn't stay with this person long. Then you are finally giving up on looking for that one good man or woman and start focusing on or things in your life like; your relationship with God, health, your relationship with friends and family, and your job. Then suddenly out of nowhere this guy or girl comes along and sweeps you off your feet that you were not looking for and then you realize that they are the one and you don't wanna go back to anything else. When you put your focus on God and put if first things will fall in place.